Just wondering...

**Uncle Bob** · May 7th, 2001, 04:27 PM

"some people take it way too seriously..."

Yes, damn it. I hate it when people take other people's emotions and lives too seriously. Damn them and all they stand for.

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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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**Uncle Bob** · May 7th, 2001, 05:15 PM

Okay... If Leo stays away, she doesn't care about the board. If Leo comes back, then she's "staying somewhere that makes her miserable where she doesn't like the people there".

It sounds like to me she's being forced into a no-win situation.

And I still don't get why someone who claims he's being "stalked" on the internet by a woman would come over to a board where he knows she posts. It just doesn't make sense. Even more so, why the hell would that said person continue to go over to her board and post when he knows that she does not want him there.

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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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[This message has been edited by Uncle Bob (edited May 07, 2001).]

**Uncle Bob** · May 7th, 2001, 06:19 PM

Umm... didn't you pretty much accuse Leo of stalking you when you said she kept sending you e-mails and going in chat rooms that you were in and such?

And I don't care if you have an excuse or not. It just seems like a stupid thing to me to go over to someone else's board when you know they can't stand you. I mean, "Duh."

**rotten** · May 7th, 2001, 06:47 PM

Okay you got me...

I'll confess to you Uncle Bob. I did post hi on leo's board...why? because I am sick and obsessed.

xldepressed

In fact don't be angry, pity me.. my life hasn't been the same. When i see a cat I think "that cat looks like a lioness" then I feel that oh so familiar lump in the throat and the tears well up. In fact I've been clawed many times for going to pet cats I've seen. But I must stroke them, I must touch them... oshame

Do not fault me for my this my friend...

Uncle bob, or If it's okay bobbie. you have seen through my hard exterior...it's an addiction. An addiction that has gone out of hand, shit I bought my beautiful r/t girlfriend a lioness suit...she does not know why.

And let me just hope she never does...

Excuse me....I need some time to myself
*humming [i]Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
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**heidi!** · May 7th, 2001, 06:55 PM

Uncle Bob..Why do you keep bringing up the past...This thread wasnt about Leo..why make it about her...You seem to think you know the whole story when You dont know the half of it..I sit here reading you're posts wondering what it is you think you know..Cause you couldnt make less sense to me.
All this was about....Is how you deal with problems..and Yeah some do take this too seriously..Some even put their family life second to it...Some ruin marriages...Some think they fall in love and get hurt really bad...so Yeah some take it too seriously..(thats what I meant by that comment)
Its not worth getting upset here..Life's too short to keep repeating yourself over and over again..or to be somewhere you dont want to be...dont give me the whole speech about how "people are real with real feeings"..I know all about it..Have great friendships that started here and lasted for years...All I was pointing out is that real life issues come first..and when you see the suffering around you....being miserable here seems like a waste of energy..This isnt about Leo...Snails or myself...You know only one side of that if anything at all...This was simply asking the people fighting to stop and look at what they are fighting about..and ask if its worth it..
As for Rev and spyder ...I see them post on mel's board...They are always funny ..never judge anyone and just seem like they want a good time...Thats the side of them I know..and Rev let me rub his ass for luck one time..*G*..They seem Kewl to me.. smile

**Uncle Bob** · May 8th, 2001, 07:21 AM

Gee, it seems like there's stuff missing from this post that was here at one time... interesting... Maybe it's a time paradox.

Anywhoo, heidi, yes, I'll admit, I did scrape the surface when I mentioned Leo (without saying her name), but that was a side comment not really pertaining to the entire conversation, just one part of your statement in general. When I posted Leo's name directly, it was in reply to snail saying she didn't care anymore and how she has been put into a paradox where if she posts or doesn't post, she's still screwed either way she goes. I.e.: having to hang around people who she isn't fond of or being told she doesn't care about the board (I believe that post hasn't been deleted yet, eh snail?)

And, as per my view of the situation, I don't have to "know" much of anything. You have two people who have had problems in the past. Both sides claim they just want the other one to leave them alone.

So, later down the road, one party makes a point to start posting at a board where they know the other party posts. Even if they are tired of getting e-mails and hearing from that said person.

Then, later, after both parties blow up at each other again, the same person goes, not only to another board where that party knows the other party posts at, but the second party's own board.

Can you honestly, honestly tell me someone isn't looking to cause trouble?

And, maybe it's just me, but I don't see how it is considered fun or "not judging" to go over to someone else's board posting topics calling people a "c*nt" and such just to try to piss them off. The only thing I call that is immature.

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I realize, what's on the surface ain't picture perfect but that don't mean a thing. One thing I know, is there's a purpose, and like the circus, we're hanging from the rings.
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**Whyatt Thrash** · May 8th, 2001, 07:49 AM

Just let it go already.

**heidi!** · May 8th, 2001, 11:05 AM

I swear to God I didnt come here to discuss the Leo ..snails drama thing..*L*..Uncle Bob keeps bringing it up ...Its all his fault..blame him....*points finger*G*...

*L*..Im not even goin there on that topic..I never started this one to bring up all that old crap that no one cares about anymore... smile

It was a sensible discussion way up there somewhere..Honest..Just look..Yep...It was.. smile